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MikeT
10th December 2003, 04:15 PM
aaah, so this is what it feels like to be dumped for the eleventh time since September...I never thought I'd make it past 10 in year 8!
What is so wrong with me? Do they just get attracted then go off me? Guys, i dunno what i can ask u...but Girls what is the clue to a good relationship with a guy?
I heard that clingy is bad...yet Lucy (my mate) likes clingy-ness...
I JUST CAN'T GET DANIELLE OUT OF MY HEAD! :'(
Alice
10th December 2003, 04:45 PM
11 times since september?? thats one girl a week.....why r u askin out so many girls?? doesnt particularly sound like deep meaningful relationships to mean. and clinginess is generally not good, but u should pay lots of attention to ur girlfiend
MikeT
10th December 2003, 04:56 PM
they werent different girls...It was Stef for ages, but she kept dumping me then asking me out again...
then Danielle...
I pay her loads of attention, but when I do people say it's clingy!
The Mullet of G
10th December 2003, 05:32 PM
you need to forget about the one that kept dumping you, people like that are only in it for themselves and the drama they can gain from it, this other one you need to learn to judge the balance between attention and clingyness , I've always lived by the motto "treat them mean keep them keen" I'm not saying you've got to start being mean to your girlfriend, you just have to learn you need to let her win your attention sometimes, its the thrill of the chase kinda thang - someone who is too easy to have becomes pretty boring quickly as theres no challenge, so learn to back of a little and play your hand a little closer to your chest, no one wants to be told you love them on a first date lol ;)
screwedlilbunny
10th December 2003, 05:59 PM
tell the biatch that keeps dumping you to go poke it where the mighty ol' sun don't shine...
Alice
10th December 2003, 09:16 PM
Originally posted by MikeT
they werent different girls...It was Stef for ages, but she kept dumping me then asking me out again...
then Danielle...
oo ok that kinda makes more sense. Wen i read wot G sed about "treat em mean keep em keen" i instantly thought it was a bit mean but im ashamed to say its probably quite true.
franbeec
11th December 2003, 09:42 PM
Personally I think u need to move on, this gals only usin u...who knows y (she sounds a little selfish to me) but me thinks ur worth more then that
MikeT
12th December 2003, 06:38 PM
awww, thanks guys...I've forgot about Stef...we've split up for about a fortnight now, and she got off wit Liam at Lisa's party last night, now she's going back out with Kris..I don't even like herein her name anymore!
but Danielle, I need her to notice me...Callum fancies her...argh, it's so annoying...I just want to well u know...:o
Sunners
12th December 2003, 06:47 PM
Birthday: October 12, 1990
:rolleyes:
Go play with your Playstation or something... What is it with you young folk these days? :D
MikeT
12th December 2003, 07:07 PM
hush child, I'm 13 and that classes me as a teenager which classes me permission to post...anyway, I prefer girls to playstations...and I had a 4 year "relationship" anyway, who said I can't have a girlfriend at my age! hmph....*realises going in a mood would just make me seem more childish...*
ok, I'm not the oldest, but I still have feelings...
Mana~Sama
12th December 2003, 07:54 PM
You're only thirteen?? *thought you where older*
MikeT
12th December 2003, 08:31 PM
being only 13, does this make my story seem a bit more..err...sort of non-serious? Like cuz I'm young, it may be different...if u know what i mean..
screwedlilbunny
12th December 2003, 09:26 PM
Originally posted by MikeT
being only 13, does this make my story seem a bit more..err...sort of non-serious? Like cuz I'm young, it may be different...if u know what i mean.. exact amondo! at thirteen i dont think you would really have the emotional bond so some kind of stable grown up relationship. I'm 16 and most people my age don't even have that level of emotion for someone else! but anyway you're young why worry your self over stupid childish girls? you dont need a relationship at your age and if it is there is no way it would be like majorly serious. plus that 4 year relationship so you were either 9 or younger? lol really you cant class that as a relationship all the people i "went out with" before being 14/15 i dont even count there was no bond just a strong friendship.
MikeT
12th December 2003, 10:35 PM
yeah, I suppose that's true. And at the start of year 7 I promised myself that I wouldn't go out with anyone cuz I don't know the meaning of the word and I was only 11...lol, so, maybe I'm being a bit deep for all this..
I think it might be okay to go out wit ppl, but just be a bit more lighthearted about things..maybe that's what turns ppl off....
screwedlilbunny
13th December 2003, 11:49 AM
*wipes eyes* i'm so proud of you :) lol
Alex
13th December 2003, 12:11 PM
screwedlilbunny... the CBF agony aunt/love doc!!! :p
screwedlilbunny
13th December 2003, 01:19 PM
Originally posted by ALEX :)
screwedlilbunny... the CBF agony aunt/love doc!!! :p lol mwuhahahaha :D who'd have thought it?
MikeT
14th December 2003, 11:28 AM
*dances around screwedlilbunny!*
I'm a magician you know...not a love magician though. I can make it rain snails...anywhoo..I'M CURED, but anyway, I still fancy Danielle, cuz she's incredibly good lookin and she makes me laugh loads....*winks*:cool:
sweeti1
14th December 2003, 11:32 AM
gud 4 u i stil fancy chris but im just getin over im
MikeT
14th December 2003, 11:55 AM
not that I want a serious relationship wit D or anythin..I just like her...it's like X-Tina...I want to have a serious relationship wit her...but I know that's neva gunna happen.
hijackerdude
8th January 2004, 09:48 PM
im 14 and i had a relationship with some 1. I now fancy this girl called Nicola and i think she fancies me, how do i know if she fancies me or not?:shrug:
xxRoGuExx
8th January 2004, 10:42 PM
Well that all depends on what the girl is like! Most girls all show different ways of telling whether they like you or not! So yeah..
Bunners..Graeme finished with me but we are mates now! I was upset at the time but now I am just enjoying life :D And you will be happy to here i still have my 'V' plates :P ;) :D
Naomi xxxxxxxx
franbeec
9th January 2004, 08:07 AM
Originally posted by hijackerdude
how do i know if she fancies me or not?:shrug:
I dunno how much u can roely on wot the bbc says coz like Rogue said we all hav different ways ov showin we fancy sum 1,sum dnt even show it at all.....but i posted this on a nothr thread,might cum in handy...clicky me here (http://www.bbc.co.uk/teens/lads/pulling/pullingfactfiles/ten_signs.shtml)...or ov course u cud take the hard option and just ask her...
hijackerdude
9th January 2004, 04:48 PM
thanks 4 all the info!
i hope it works
From hijackerdude
screwedlilbunny
9th January 2004, 05:11 PM
Originally posted by xxRoGuExx
i still have my 'V' plates :P ;) :D
Naomi xxxxxxxx good good, still tell him he is a f*** face. well i never showed sam i liked him hahaha he always thought i thought he was a retard (that be half right but he be my retard :D )
franbeec
9th January 2004, 08:10 PM
Originally posted by hijackerdude
thanks 4 all the info!
i hope it works
From hijackerdude
Let us know how it goes! :thumb:
hijackerdude
10th January 2004, 01:46 PM
k i will, but im going to france tomorrow so i wont b able to post for about five days so i will c ya when i get back.
franbeec
10th January 2004, 07:52 PM
kool =] HAVE A GREAT TIME!!!!!
xxRoGuExx
10th January 2004, 08:01 PM
Hmm well Bunners, I am GLAD i did not lose my virginity to him, cus i have realised why i went out with him! It's cus before graeme..i went out wit a dude in england but that was a holiday romance not a real relationship..anyways yeah well before the holiday romance i had not been out with anyone in like a year and a half (unless you count the on day i went out with my ex best friends ex :S )..so i think i just reacted to the impulse that someone liked me..and hten i liked havin him around..not cus i loved him but cus i liked the fact that someone liked me and stuff! so yeah i think that's the reason..yeah well anyways we are mates now..and av heard that after a week of dumpin me..he MIGHT b goin out with someone now or is single jst now...but i think graeme's mate speaks c*ap so yeah ama find out cus am goin to his bday party if he has one cus he invited me :D well i invited myself and he agreed :P lol xxxx
WackoJacko
11th January 2004, 05:56 PM
Originally posted by MikeT
it's like X-Tina
now thats a name
WackoJacko
11th January 2004, 06:05 PM
Hmm well Bunners, I am GLAD i did not lose my virginity to him, cus i have realised why i went out with him! It's cus before graeme..i went out wit a dude in england but that was a holiday romance not a real relationship..anyways yeah well before the holiday romance i had not been out with anyone in like a year and a half (unless you count the on day i went out with my ex best friends ex :S )..so i think i just reacted to the impulse that someone liked me..and hten i liked havin him around..not cus i loved him but cus i liked the fact ......................
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pfft
Mana~Sama
12th January 2004, 05:48 PM
Why did he call you sister?
WackoJacko
12th January 2004, 05:50 PM
cuz like he was on a total freak like and he was all like 'no way'
xxRoGuExx
12th January 2004, 08:11 PM
Erm i am confused cus i ddnt meantion someone callin me their sister did i?! And wacko..enough of the sarcasm..it dnt suit u!
screwedlilbunny
12th January 2004, 09:11 PM
pmsl, i found it funny :D
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Mana~Sama
12th January 2004, 09:11 PM
Don't listen Wacko! Sarcasm suits you better than anyone else around here!
WackoJacko
12th January 2004, 09:28 PM
Originally posted by Mana~Sama
Don't listen Wacko! Sarcasm suits you better than anyone else around here!
no it doesnt.......sarcasm
hijackerdude
15th January 2004, 01:03 PM
hey all just thought i would tell u that im back from France
hijackerdude
17th January 2004, 12:54 PM
it was great, i am going to try and ask nicola out on monday so wish me good look, im really scared!
franbeec
19th January 2004, 08:16 PM
i know its a bit late but GUD LUCK! How'd it go neways?
MikeT
24th January 2004, 02:33 PM
god god god....
me & my best mate Nat decided to pretend to go out to make D jealous...but now Nat says she fancies me for real....i'm in one big caboozle....
screwedlilbunny
24th January 2004, 02:42 PM
do you like her in that way?
MikeT
24th January 2004, 02:57 PM
no...she's just my best m8!
franbeec
24th January 2004, 03:25 PM
awwwww, u might grow to like her in that way but it's not the same :-/
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